For Ozzie, my furry brother from another mother
Ozzie is looking for his forever home. |
The Humane Societyof Eastern Carolina has been home to a special dog for the past two
years. Ozzie’s been living in a six-foot kennel for 730 days (give or take a few). That’s 14 years
in doggie time. He’ll continue to live there until the exact right person comes
to take him home because HSEC is a no-kill facility, which is awesome. Except,
how long can a dog live in a shelter environment without losing every ounce
of his spirit?
My amazing little sister has this to say about Ozzie.
Things you should know
about Ozzie. He is on the naughty list for being so choosy about his canine
friends. He would do best in a home with no other dogs.
He is a Chow mix that takes
time to let you into his world, which is why he is harder to place. People want
to walk in, instantly bond and go home. That's just not how Ozzie works. He
needs to know you are there for him and that you will be there day after day,
and once you earn his heart, he's all yours.
It's not that he is mean in
any way shape or form; it is just that he won't even look you in the eye or
acknowledge your existence until he learns what you are all about. If you know
Ozzie, this is something you will grow to love and respect about him!
He is very receptive to our
staff and regular volunteers that see him day in and day out and will follow us
around the office when we let him roam around. He loves his walks and has even
been known to jog on occasion, but mainly, Ozzie loves to keep you company and
snuggle up in a warm blanket.
He recognizes certain staff
when he hears their cars pull in and cries and cries until we come and greet
him. This is how we know he has such potential to be an awesome part of
someone's family.
His loyalty is neverending!
He needs someone to take a
leap of faith in him and I'm hoping I find that person soon:) I would like
nothing more to have Ozzie in a home for the holidays!
I feel like Ozzie
and me have a lot in common. We both are terrified of strangers and take a long time to warm up to people. This means, some people will judge us quickly and never give us time enough to show them how loyal we can be.
Ozzie is no
stranger to fame. Two years ago, the Pitt County Animal Shelter took Ozzie in. There are two sides at the shelter—adoptable and unadoptable, and each side has 25-30 pens. The shelter has the unenviable job of sorting all the dogs that they take in into these limited spaces. In October of this
year alone, the facility brought in 290 dogs.
I suck at math, but
even I know those numbers don’t work.
Ozzie, due to his distrust of humans, was not chosen for the adoptable side. A well-meaning volunteer
posted his picture on social media, her heart broken by the thought that he'd never get a chance. He’s an adorable guy, so obviously, people
noticed him. Unfortunately, people let their ire be misdirected, sending
threatening messages to the shelter and bad-mouthing the good people that work
there.
People from as far
away as Texas and Florida swore they were coming to rescue Ozzie from the
horrible people that would put down such a “beautiful creature.”
Ozzie is
beautiful, as are all the other dogs on the unadoptable side of the shelter,
but let’s pause just a moment to remember the shelter workers and volunteers
already have homes bursting with animals. These are not the people filling
shelters with unwanted animals. They are doing their best with limited
resources to save as many animals as they can.
Not one of Ozzie’s social media admirers came to rescue him. Instead,
HSEC stepped in at the request of the volunteer who had first seen potential
in Ozzie.
In the past two
years, Ozzie has been adopted and returned twice. Despite being warned that
Ozzie does not easily make doggie friends, his first rescuer took him to a dog
park, where he, of course, lost his cool. He was returned.
Another guy adopted Ozzie, but then abandoned him when he had to move.
There’s a reason
we call dogs Man’s Best Friend. They are loyal. They live to be part of a
pack—to belong.
Ozzie has been
denied this over the past few years. The stress has taken it's toll.
And while I’m glad
Ozzie’s life was spared, I wonder if we really did him a favor?
Ozzie’s life is
safe. HSEC will make sure of that.
But how many other
dogs and cats are trapped in this cycle because of our well meaning, but
perhaps misguided attempts to help them?
No. I am not saying
we should euthanize more animals.
Euthanasia is a horrible side-effect of our society's "disposable" mind-set. Today, if the toaster breaks, we toss it and buy a new one. In the past, people at least tried to fix things before tossing them. How sad that some pets are treated with no more respect than toasters?
I am saying you should hug you local shelter employees and volunteers. Bet they need one
Every. Damn. Day. And thank them for doing with dignity the difficult tasks associated with caring for unwanted pets that we
choose to ignore in our day-to-day lives.
I am saying that
if you are considering finding a pet, please do your research. Once you know
what types of dogs would best suit your entire family, start at your local
shelter, Humane Society, rescue group, or Petfinder.com. There are all breeds
and ages of unwanted pets literally dying for you to save them.
I am saying pets
are never perfect. They have quirks and personalities and frailties all their
own. They’re going to screw up, just like us. And we need to respect these
things about them. Would you surrender your child because he has a hard time
making friends? Would you give up on a friend because she lacks
self-confidence? Would you leave your spouse behind because a new job
opportunity asks you to move?
And yet the
shelters are full of animals surrendered by their owners for these and many
other reasons.
Let’s review that
math again. 290 intakes in a 31-day period. 45 available spaces. That’s 245
animals with nowhere to go. Nowhere.
And that’s just 1 month out of 12, in 1 small county out of 100 in North Carolina, which as we all know is . . . 1 state in 50.
See why I hate math!
And that’s just 1 month out of 12, in 1 small county out of 100 in North Carolina, which as we all know is . . . 1 state in 50.
See why I hate math!
I feel like Ozzie
and me are kindred spirits, both hiding behind defenses we’ve built to protect
us from being let down by people. I want nothing more this Christmas than for
Ozzie to be given a chance for true love, to have a home. But I want it to be a forever home, and that will take a
very special kind of person. He is, after all, a very special kind of dog.
Click on the links in the blog post to learn more about HSEC and Ozzie!
For more information on how to adopt Ozzie or about the Humane Society of Eastern Carolina, please visit www.HSECarolina.org or http://www.petango.com/Adopt/Dog-Chow-Chow-14793044.
ReplyDeleteI went with my friend to your shelter and saw Ozzie . I first noticed him on the inside kind of ignored me did not get up from his cot instead he went outside. As I went outside and saw him again he seemed interested in me a little more and very adorable! I would go right this instant and adopt him as soon as tomorrow and work with him if it were not for my less than a year old car Lilly. I am a dog person and always have been . I worry that by taking him in Lilly and her home will be threatened not out of spite or anger from Ozzie but out of fear and jealousy. So I will share his story I. Hopes someone will save hi
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My amazing little sister has informed me that Ozzie has a new mommy. I'll be sure to post an update soon.
ReplyDeleteChandra, I know it is hard to leave a fuzzy guy like Ozzie behind. I was in the same position because my picky rescue pup likes to be the only dog in the household. These are the tough decisions we have to make though so that the perfect someone can come in and find Ozzie (like she did!). Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI am Ozzy's mama! I had a whole cute story typed and my computer ate it! To make a long story short, I came across your blog from your sister's blog. I think you and I actually might have some common friends. I graduated from Conley in '93.
ReplyDeleteOz is doing great! He is silly, goofy, & smart. We love him like crazy! When I first saw him I knew he was going to be my boy. I can't imagine life without him. Thank you so much for taking the time to care and write about him. I actually adopted him about two weeks after you wrote this.
Finally, my job calls for me to be on top of my game when it comes to YA fiction. I am very much looking forward to reading your book!!!
Hi, Ozzy's Mama! Thanks for the update. I was so thrilled when Bethann told me he got adopted. Just looking at his sweet face, I knew he'd be a keeper!
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